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6.30.2014

Visitors from Hoosier Land!


I know it's been quiet on the blog, but for good reason... the last 6 days we have hosted these folks!  

We were blessed to have leadership from our sending organization (WGM) visit Albania for the first time and see first hand what we are doing!  We kept them quite busy melding them into our life here, plus throwing in a few side trips to historical sites.  I'm afraid I didn't have my camera out much, but hopefully when they get home, I'll get some photos from Shelly to fill in my gaps for a proper report. ;-)

As hosts, we couldn't ask for better guests (and I don't just mean helping with dishes)!  They were curious about the history and culture, eager to try new experiences, inquisitive about the lives of the people they met, and willingly served where asked (like sharing in church)!  Though we're pretty tired ourselves, we feel like our tanks got filled up by time spent with folks who know us.

Now who's going to visit us next?  While my translation skills are rudimentary, I am eager to put them to use again! ;-)





6.25.2014

Leje Qendrimi (Permission to Stay), Pt 1


It's the very tedious part about living outside one's passport country --- going though all the forms and documents to gain permission to stay long-term in a host country.  

And we have been spoiled in that Albania has a very generous policy for Americans living within their borders.  Just before we arrived, they changed the law to allow Americans to stay up to one year without applying for 'leje qendrimi' (permission to stay).

With our one year anniversary approaching in early September, it's time for us to start the process so, as Ellie says, "They won't throw us out."

The first documents we need to produce are birth certificates for the kids.  It seems straightforward enough but no, not here of course.  These certificates need to have been issued within the past three months, so the copies we were given at the time of their adoptions wouldn't suffice.

Though both Ellie and Reni were born in the capital, when they were placed in orphanages in different parts of Albania, their registration moved to the city of their new addresses.  And when we adopted them both, their registrations/records remained in the cities of their respective orphanages.

What that meant for us last week was that to get Ellie's birth certificate, we needed to schedule a trip to Vlora, 2.5 hours south of Tirana.  We had no clue where to find the offices where her records were kept, nor how one exactly procured such a document.  Thankfully we have our colleague, Mandi.

Before we left Tirana, he wisely suggested we look at an old copy of her birth certificate and it would tell us in what neighborhood within the city of Vlora the orphanage resides as all records are linked to the lagje (neighborhood). After some phone calls and asking around, we found the neighborhood office above (after passing it twice -- I won't comment on the overgrown shrubbery obscuring the sign).

After much waiting for our turn, we discovered that to get a copy of her birth certificate, we needed to go to another office in a different part of town.  Back to the car we went, more driving, more looking for parking.  Then we found it.  Nathan remembered it from 7.5 years ago, but I honestly couldn't tell you if I had been there before or not.  Wherever we were, it was b-u-s-y.

Ellie shot this photo out of the back of the car while we waited in the parking lot.


After finally finding the right window, the clerk searched for Ellie's name.  She searched and she searched.

It turns out that since we adopted Ellie, Vlora computerized all of their records.  And the funny thing is, computers require exact spelling matches to answer queries.

The staff looked in the original ledger from December 2006 (a giant book containing line after line of handwritten records) and Ellie was there.  Nathan and I were there.  Our names were spelled perfectly correctly.  But in the computer? You guessed it, our names were misspelled. Two keystrokes and our trip was for naught.

In spite of many apologies and admission of fault, the office did not have the authority to correct the mistakes.  They couldn't pick up the phone and make a call. We were told we would have to go to the official Registry in Tirana and provide all of our documents to show how their record should be corrected before a correct birth certificate could be printed.

So on Friday Nathan and Mandi made their first visit to correct the record. I will spare the details but suffice it to say, the process requires visits to 3 offices in as many days while requests make their way up the chain.  THEN we can go back to Vlora and try again.

This is just the beginning...(read Part II here)

6.22.2014

Last Day of School!

Wednesday, June 18 marked the last day of school across Albania for her grade-school aged children.  Since we now have Wednesdays off on our summer school schedule, we were excited to join Mandi and Xhina on their trip up to Darshen.  The drive to Darshen is not for the faint-of-heart, but it's oh-so worth it.  I haven't been over the mountain in some time, so I enjoyed the carpet of summer green and bright spots of yellow wild flowers lining the road side.

We arrived mid-morning and trekked up the hillside to the highest point in the village, the public school.  All of the kids were gathered in one classroom (though more than a dozen other rooms sat empty and vacant, unused for many years, testimony to a time when life in this community was far more vibrant).

Ellie walked right over to a desk and took a seat along with the students.  Reni hid, self-conscious in a crowd of kids he didn't know, behind the teacher's desk.


Xhina warmed up the group with some corporate singing...


Nathan shared a devotional message with the kids based on Luke 2:52.

"And Jesus grew in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man."


Nathan reminded the students that Jesus had been a child just like them.  And like them, he spent time in school, sharpening his mind and learning (the 'growing in wisdom' part).  Nathan challenged the students that though school was over for the summer, they should continue challenging their brains by reading books, like the Storybook Bible we gave them at Christmas.

Nathan told him that Jesus also grew in stature -- a reminder that he was born as a baby and experienced growing pains and too-small shoes and short clothes.  We expected that the next time we saw them in the fall, the kids should be a little taller! 


Then Nathan told them that the Bible says Jesus grew in favor with God and man.  He explained that as we grow in our relationship with God, our desire will be to please Him, and as we live a life that is pleasing to God, it will spill over into our relationships with others.

They listened attentively and I prayed the words were falling on open hearts. 

We then presented them with gifts from a generous friend in the States.  They received them quietly and politely, as is their custom.






As only God could work it out -- all of their clothes and shoes fit!!!




As seems to be the nature of life on the mountain, the weather changed quickly and became overcast, but thankfully never rained.



After school we met with the mayor of the village to discuss the possibility of helping improve a couple of village homes.

It's so complicated navigating the waters of physical assistance between choosing those who are most needy, then in determining the best course of action.


It wasn't exactly Ellie and Reni's 'cup of tea', so soon I was letting Ellie take photos with my camera as a means of keeping her entertained.

Here's the view of 'downtown Darshen' as photographed by Ellie.




Want to get 'real smiles' out of grown ups?  Give a bulky, unwieldy camera to a 9-year-old and let her subjects watch her take their photo...



I missed the mayor giving Reni a kiss, but you can see what he thought of his whiskers.
(poor Reni gets LOTS of kisses)



Two good little travelers...  These two are growing up and better travelers than just a year ago!  On our way back to Tirana!

6.19.2014

Meet Ida


Many have asked us what we've been doing for childcare since Abby and Anna returned to the States.  Understandably, it can be cause for concern to find someone you trust to take care of your children!  Especially when you're in a foreign country and have a limited network of connections! Sometime in early April it dawned on me that I needed a game plan for childcare post Abby and Anna's departure mid May. Through friends at the homeschool co-op I learned of a Christian young woman who loves kids. We got her number and prayed that she might be willing to work with us!

Meet Ida!  Due to changes in another missionary family's schedule, she was free to watch Ellie and Reni for the three weeks we had remaining of Shqip 2, and now watches the kiddos during our Monday/Friday morning summer school sessions.  It was very reaffirming during our first meeting with her to discover a number of interpersonal connections outside of the folks who originally recommended her.  Furthermore, she's fantastic with the kids and they really like her!

For those of you prayer partners who had been praying for this need!  See how God answered your prayers on our behalf!

6.18.2014

The Blue Eye


At first glance, it looks like a pond in the woods that flows into a river.

But it's no ordinary pond.  Crystal clear waters aside, the mouth is several beautiful shades of deep blue, the depth which goes on and on.  Reni drops a substantial rock from the platform above to plumb the depths, but the force of a spring below pushes the rock up and carries it away. 

Albanians call it Syri i Kaltër or, "The Blue Eye."


The source is so deep, in spite of descending dozens of meters, divers have not been able to overcome the force of the spring's pressure to determine the extent of its depth.






We had heard of The Blue Eye for years and knew that our farewell trip south with Abby and Anna would be our best chance to see it.  Photos don't adequately depict the flow of the current so here is a video of us coming upon it after a short walk through some trees (pardon the creaking/clacking of my camera strap attachment!):



6.17.2014

This little piggy went to Vlashaj... this little piggy played soccer...

We had a bunch of girls from the University of Arkansas (Razorbacks!) stay last week with us out in the village!  They are spending a total of six weeks in Albania and chose to spend one of those weeks in Vlashaj to get a broader picture of the country and the face of missions here!


The team was hosted by our friends, the Shackelfords in Elbasan.  The team leaders (upper left, above) Arsid and Lindsey (married) were great.  Arsid is Albanian and this was his first time back in Albania since coming to the States 14 months ago.  We were with them Tuesday, then returned to Vlashaj on Friday, Saturday and Sunday morning.  While in Vlashaj they visited homes, played lots of soccer and volleyball with the kids, and sat in on the various programs that go on in the center throughout the week.  Two of the students are studying nursing and shadowed the village nurse for part of a day!


The team came prepared for ministry and willingly shared testimonies, creative dramas, and played in the middle of the heat with our youth.



I think I'm always surprised how much of my heart leaves when volunteers depart, but our lives feel much richer for having met these young women.  They encouraged our hearts and filled us up by loving our friends and neighbors. 

They all shared how refreshing and peaceful they found their first village experience (how can you not when the traffic occasionally looks like this):


Come back anytime, girls!

6.16.2014

Ellie's Birthday Highlights in Photos

Last fall we saw this hotel shaped like an airplane.  Ellie couldn't get it out of her head.  She desperately wanted to go inside and stay the night there.  We told her maybe for her birthday...

Thankfully hotels aren't very expensive here.  And we believe that 'experiences' trump gifts just for the sake of gifts (Ellie's not really into 'toys' and it's always a struggle to shop for her), so we decided to make a night at the airplane hotel part of her birthday celebration here for a unique way to remember this birthday.


It didn't disappoint!  We had a comfortable room and had a little bit of time in the morning to enjoy the pool before going to kids' club.


We got our breakfast poolside!  Yes, we were those crazy Americans who were in the pool at 7:30AM.  Crazy thing was, it was hot enough at that early hour for the water to feel really good!

While we waited for our food, Ellie declared that the plane flew around the world while we slept and landed again.  Reni couldn't believe she actually thought that (he's still trying to understand her imagination).


We had omelettes the size of dinner plates but Reni was most excited about the chocolate brioche.


I snapped this pic below to remind me how sweet it was to watch her lifting and helping her brother access all of the parts of the playground he wanted to enjoy.  Her compassionate heart is one of my favorite things about her!


We pulled up to the ministry center at 9:58 and enjoyed a fantastic program brought by a visiting team from Arkansas (more about them later).  That's our crazy friend Ken (a missionary in Elbasan) acting as Zacheus.  He walked in on his knees and Reni said, "He looks like ME!"


Nathan had the great idea to bring cake pops for Ellie's birthday treats.  Then he researched them on the internet for instructions and halved meat skewers to work as sticks.

In the process, we discovered that 'cake pops' have not made it to Albania yet.  We got a lot of confused looks from our Albanian-English speaking friends, even when we described them.  I think they were a hit.  I wish I could remember why Luli was so tickled below.


Ambra brought Ellie the most beautiful bouquet of flowers (see my instagram feed at the top of the blog).



Yeah, we were going for purple and it turned out more 'gray'.  Ah well.
Thank goodness for sprinkles at Conad (a grocery chain)! We paid a small fortune for them, but they really completed the look.


One of our birthday traditions for the last several birthdays has been to launch a paper lantern.  I had a few left when we were packing up in the States and threw them in the bottom of a suitcase. Ellie was totally surprised and really pleased to show her village friends how these work.



The heat of the day made it take a while for the heat to rise substantially enough in the lantern, but once it was off, up and away it flew!


We brought home Ken's youngest daughter, J, who is just a month older than Ellie, for a sleepover.  I think they all had a blast,


I brought over the #9 candle last year, but it turns out you can get them here too!  Oh well. ;-) The little cake is the leftovers from the cake pops and was going to be iced to resemble a bird cage, but we ran out of time. ;-(


Happy Birthday, sweet Els!  We hope you know how much you are loved!