One of Reni's best buddies has a birthday the day after his. Last year, they celebrated down in Albania. This year was our turn to head up to Kosova!
After the lockdown, we have never relished travel and a change of scenery more (I'm sure we're not the only ones!).
We had a wonderful time with our friends there. They have a wonderful grassy back yard -- a bit of a luxury in our part of the world -- so we brought some plastic for a slip 'n slide. We also played games, watched a kids movie, had coffee in the Rugove (a canyon just outside their town), and enjoyed some yummy local food. Because of the status of construction in the village, we didn't feel like we could be away more than a couple of nights.
Girls gotta stick together!
Nathan brought some ingredients and an idea from the internet to create this Minecraft inspired brownie sword cake!
For one day they are the same age :-)
https://youtu.be/qCWiDm2O9DY
I had to include this photo of Reni double-fisting the brownie squares (below). I mean, when there are five other kids competing for a limited number of sweet chocolate bites...
I think he liked it!
Later the adults grabbed macchiatos. Which I later regretted when I could. not. go. to. sleep.
The art school in their town recently moved into a new building and their neighbor is the principal. He saw us on the street and invited us into see the last student exhibit. It was pretty incredible -- unfortunately this is the only photo I took (below). :-)
Our time flew so quickly. Impulsively, we arranged for our friends' two middle boys (a year older and 6 months younger than Reni), to come back to Albania with us for a week. I used to do "cousin swaps" growing up and this felt a lot like my childhood. The kids were thrilled!
Because the boys are minors (and we were not meeting half way between Chicago and Peoria but crossing an international border), their parents accompanied us to the border to walk them across. Just before reaching the border, we stopped in Prizren (about 15 minutes from the border) for lunch at a new shopping center. Wow! It was beautiful! We snapped some family pics with the birthday boys.
Once the boys were across the border and in our car, the fun really started...
We had barely entered Albania when we got behind a slow car in a construction zone driving up a mountain. Our vehicle immediately lost power and the temperature gauge shot to the top. We immediately pulled over to let the engine cool.
We did this twice, with each stop lasting more than an hour. The two hour trip from the border took closer to five!
The kids were extremely patient. Thankfully, some kind souls at the second stop had an idea that we might have an airlock in the hose that circulates the coolant (or something like that). The patiently flushed out all the hot water and refilled it with cold water and we were good to go. The rest of the trip home was downhill from there (literally)!
We later got the 17-year-old car checked out and the mechanic discovered something wrong with the circulation system and was able to repair it.
Hence, "Camp Waggoner" got off to an exciting start! We'll post more later!
With quarantine restrictions lifted and normal activities resuming, this month seemed to fly. I had to pull out my monthly planner to refresh my memory!
This month held its share of special highlights including:
We wrapped up another year of homeschooling!
Resumed visits to Ellie's orthodontist after several months away
Supervised many afternoon nerf gun battles with village boys
Helped host a reunion BBQ lunch for the students at VT Albania
Enjoyed some yummy fresh produce from our garden as well as the neighbors'
Slipped away for three days to introduce Tiffany to southern Albania
And finally, on June 30, celebrated the 10th!!! anniversary of meeting Reni in person, even though we wouldn't officially become a family for several more weeks.
These are fresh figs. After way too many years, Cydil has finally overcome textural aversion and learned how to eat these. :-) The jam is delicious.
Social distancing at outdoor kids club! Such a challenge after months away from the classroom... but we are so happy to see our young friends again.
One of Reni's besties had a birthday. Reni asked Nathan to walk him to the door of his friend's home, then excused Nathan to leave him there. He's growing up and more confident and independent!
What new recipes have you tried this recently? The kids expressed a desire to learn how to cook. This was a good beginner-level recipe, but they are a long ways from cooking on their own! (Tortilla/omelette wraps you can fill with toppings of your choosing!)
My friend Merita gifted me with these fresh apricots from her yard. Whoever said cooking produce intensifies flavors didn't exaggerate! These were so tasty fresh but came out of the oven with a strong side of sour! :-) We'll just say a little bit went a long way.
This friend in Metalle was SO earnest in his re-cap of the previous week's lesson. We all got a giggle when he stated that Zacheus' job was to collect taxes... for water and electricity.
While doing some business at our bank in Tirana, Nathan snapped a photo of this poorly-named virtual teller assistant for the Austrian-based bank. Yeah, I imagine folks will struggle to call "Rona" for help...
One Thursday morning Pastor Genti and I traveled to the studios of Radio 7, the only evangelical radio station in the Albanian language, to promote The Chosen. He was interviewed for more than 15 minutes.
While quarantine meant we couldn't visit our friends at the Hope Center, we were eventually allowed to come again this month to hang out with a few who were not able to return to their families for the summer. We brought a blow torch and taught them how to make s'mores. MUCH cleaner (and faster) than whittling sticks and building a campfire. :-)
While we are usually the ones bringing activities to the Hope Center, one day Ms. Pam graciously set up the slip-n-slide she had devised so Ellie and Reni could enjoy some fun in the water, too. As you can see, Nathan couldn't resist either!
For my friend, Linda... the grape arbor has grown over completely now and the grapes are coming in!
One Thursday in Tirana we had about an hour to kill between appointments. How fun was it to bump into a friend when we stopped for coffee and wifi! As you can see, we still have a lot of socializing to catch up on and fill our 'tanks' from what we missed during quarantine...
We have been holding church services outside.... While it has its challenges, so far, not too bad! We will see this week now that the heat has arrived.
The heat got to this wee one Saturday morning. She was sooo tired, she walked over to Luli, held out her arms, and fell asleep in his lap during the lesson.
The ban on minibuses/vans/public transportation meant that programs at the Valdete Trust has had to be suspended as many can only travel via the ministry's handicap accessible van. We held a lunch for the students who could make it and announced the news that Tiffany will be transitioning to the role of director in September! We arranged for the current director, Sue, to share the news via Skype from Scotland. We are grateful the news seems to have been positively received!
There's nothing like the loss of freedom to drive and leave one's home to inspire exploration when that freedom returns. Combined with a rapid increase in positive COVID numbers and a governmental threat to return to lockdown, we spontaneously planned a three-day trip to southern Albania, a place our colleague Tiffany had yet to see, while we could get out and enjoy some fresh air and nature.
At the top of my wishlist was a stop at Porto Palermo -- a castle I somehow never visited before (maybe because the road south used to be so bad and the journey so long, one just wanted to REACH the destination and not stop along the way!).
It was REALLY cool inside -- both in temperature and design. Wow. I can't believe we hadn't been before. Though by local standards, it's not really that old -- only 200 years, if I understood the guide correctly. We had the castle to ourselves to explore! It was a great way to break up the trip!
In addition to Tiffany, we brought our friend, Pam. It's more challenging to travel as a single sometimes, and we have more fun when sharing experiences with friends, so we were glad she joined us and this trip was extra fun! Below we stopped on our way in Vlora for a coffee mid-morning to break up the drive and enjoy some pretty views.
This city was where Ellie lived when we adopted her... Of course, that was in November/December 2006 when one didn't indulge in waterfront coffees without a jacket or coat! I always forget how pretty it is in Vlora, where the Adriatic meets the Ionian Sea.
Funny how this kid won't eat peanut butter or celery, but baby octopus? Bring 'em on! Good thing he likes seafood because that was about the only protein on the menu most places...
Typically this part of Albania would be crawling with Europeans attracted by Albania's natural beauty and incredible prices (which is part of the reason why we rarely visit the area -- I hate crowds), however with pandemic fears and travel obstacles, we had most places largely to ourselves. It was heartbreaking to see businesses struggling while we tried to enjoy the rare gift of quiet and space.
One of the places we insisted Tiffany see was Butrinti National Park -- a UNESCO World Heritage Site in southern Albania featuring city ruins from a couple of hundred years BC to more recent times). While in the theater where people were martyred for their faith, Reni filmed his completion of the Lift Us Up stair-climbing challenge. You can view his video here:
The Lift Us Up challenge is a fundraiser for the elevator in the new center so our friends at the Valdete Trust (who will relocate their school to our center when it opens) can access all floors in a safe, dignifying and INDEPENDENT manner. The fundraiser ends July 10 (shortly before the price quote from the elevator company expires), so don't wait! :-)
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And her life is a testimony to the miracles God has worked in her life to heal the broken places brought by her challenging start.
Covid/Quarantine sort of zapped my creativity when it came to planning a special day for her. I had planned for visitors from America to bring a few special gifts, but obviously that didn't happen. In a panic, I put out a plea on Facebook the night before for special birthday messages we could read to her throughout the day and WOW did our friends deliver!
With roughly 300 personal messages from at least 8 different countries, she had lots to smile about all day long. Her heart was filled up with so many sweet messages of affirmation from people who have known her (and even some who have only known her from afar) at various stages throughout her life. Their memories were sweetness to my soul as well!
Her birthday cake design was a surprise -- she only requested the flavors: chocolate and pistachio. Her dad outdid himself, though the design inspiration was swiped from the internet.
Her dress was supposed to be for a piano recital this month which will not happen... but her birthday was an equally fitting occasion!
Some of our closest friends in Albania joined us for lunch at Ellie's favorite restaurant -- our first indoor restaurant experience since February!
"Aunt Vera" has known Ellie from the beginning! She loves telling the story of Ellie's first bath in Mom's kitchen sink. She had never seen such a thing before and thought it was marvelously practical.
Miss Pam -- Ellie's teacher here since 2014!
For Ellie, it is all about waffles and bananas... and Nutella, of course.
And Nathan, burning the midnight oil to continue his tradition of a personalized cake for one of his kids. His best yet, I do believe!
Ellie,
We can hardly believe where the time has gone! Lest we forget, the fact that you now wearing adult-sized clothes should remind us you are growing up! And you are growing up into a beautiful young lady! We are so proud of your desire to help around the house with chores, to love others well, to please the Lord in all you do, to be a good sister to your brother... Your heart is our favorite thing about you, thus we pray Proverbs 4 as you navigate these teen years: Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it. We love you, Ellie girl!
There's no doubt that having a child with mobility challenges has opened our eyes to the barriers faced by those in wheelchairs. And I don't mean just in Albania -- even modern, European airports have presented struggles for Reni, as recently as our layover in Vienna in January.
Our own accessibility challenges pale in comparison to some of our local friends whose families rely on public transportation or live in a multi-story apartment complex without an elevator. Even then, assuming a building does have an elevator, most building entrances are above street level and lack ramps.
Barriers to accessibility mean fewer opportunities. Fewer opportunities mean less growth and poorer quality of life.
That's why, when we started designing our new community center, we envisioned a fully handicap accessible facility. We included an elevator shaft in our building plans for a future elevator installation, when finances permitted.
When our 15-year-old friend Seanan H. heard that the Valdete Trust would be moving into the center for school this fall he was concerned the elevator be installed as soon as possible. As someone who was born with cerebral palsy, he knows the value of accessibility and gets nervous when someone has to navigate him in his wheelchair up or down even a few steps.
He and his mom went to wgm.org and started an online campaign to raise the $25,000 needed to install an elevator in the Center so that the students from VT would have access to the entire building and their current stair-climbing wheel chair can be retired!
In addition to launching the campaign, he started a online challenge to climb 25,000 stairs and donate $25,000 in the month of June!
Would you join the challenge?
Carry someone or something you love up as many stairs as you can and either give or find a sponsor to give $1 per step climbed.
Have someone video your last few steps and declare that you have just completed the Lift Us Up Albania challenge and nominate 3 others to keep the challenge going.
Post your video and tag your nominees.
Use the hashtag #liftusupalbania
Go towww.LiftUsUpAlbania.organd donate. Don’t forget to comment that you are completing the challenge and list the number of steps you climbed!
Other ways to help! Maybe you aren’t able to climb stairs with someone on your back, or you are in quarantine and don’t have any stairs close by. You can still join the challenge!
‘Virtually’ climb the 25,000 stairs with us through a direct gift!
Share the challenge with your friends with a personal note.
Offer to cover the donation for someone who can climb, but can’t give.
‘Like’ or comment anytime you see a new Lift Us Up video on your news feed. This will ensure more people see the posts!
The video below gives a virtual reality experience of riding the current stair climbing chair. While we are grateful for the access it provides, you can see how scary it might be as a strapped-in passenger, the higher it goes! You can change your perspective in this video by turning your phone, or dragging your finger on the screen of your phone or tablet.
Friday marked the last day of school for Ellie and Reni! We actually didn't let them know until the final day. Needless to say, there was much excitement at the news and Nathan overheard Ms. Pam say to Ellie, "You can stop squeezing me now!"
We will continue some typing practice over the summer, and finish up some books we are reading aloud together, but we are ALL glad for a break from classes. We plan to continue a similar mode of school for next year, with the difference that Reni will take an English grammar and writing class online through The Potter's School.
It was fitting end to the term that Thursday we joined four other home-schooling families in Tirana for a field trip to Mt. Dajti. We hunted for fossils and enjoyed a picnic together in a pasture amidst sheep and goats. The weather and countryside were lovely, but it was even nicer to see people from outside our village again. :-)
"R" for Reni!
We learned this girl needs some better hiking shoes in her collection. (Thankfully, I think her feet have finally stopped growing!)
Rivers of slate rock run down the mountainside and rains reveal new discoveries all the time!
I think Ellie found the coolest fossil of the day!
Reni's new legs never cease to amaze me. Combined with his determination and natural athleticism, they have taken him places I never imagined possible!
Yes, I now have a sack of rocks in my entryway, lol.
What kid doesn't love pounding rocks with a hammer?
We drove to a nearby pasture for lunch... Anyone want to sing "The Hills are Alive" with me? On a side note, we discovered we were a tad close to the prime minister's residence when police officers showed up to check on our activities. :-) We must have appeared harmless because they didn't ask us to leave.
We had to duck out a bit early for Ellie's orthodontist appointment (the first since February!) and wanted a group photo before we left so we missed a good number of the high schoolers and a few parents who had gone exploring some nearby rock formations. I am including the photo here because the view...and the sheep.
