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1.28.2013

Making Connections; North Carolina, Pt 2

Whew!  This post has been in 'draft form' on my computer for a long, long time!  I'll see if I can finally get it finished!  We just haven't stopped!

From Ricky and Aidan's in Morganton, we thought we would try to beat the impending ice storm to Cary.  As you can see from the photos below, it beat us.

one of our hub caps.  those spikes are ice.

I'm only posting these photos now that we have safely returned and moms can no longer worry...
In Cary we went to visit my high school friend, Joy, and her husband, Jason, and their two children.


Jason is an engineer and when he learned about our missing alternator belt, he decided that he and Nathan would figure out how to replace it. Joy and I stayed in the nice, warm indoors and caught up on life. It's cool to see that nearly twenty years after graduating from high school and moving our personal items out of our shared, side-by-side lockers, we still share the same values!  Like us, they have a daughter and a son, and the kids got along great!  


Thanks to the internet chat boards and YouTube videos, the guys got a new belt on, and Nathan learned how to change it again in the future (which he'd have to do less than 24 hours later).  We're going to the shop  Monday morning to see if the pulleys are out of alignment.  Any mechanics out there have other theories why we keep losing belts?

We are grateful for Jason and Joy's hospitality and the blessing of friendships that last over the decades!


Saturday morning we left the B family's home early and drove two miles across town to have the pleasure of meeting another Albanian adoptive family "for real"!  I met Janice on a Bethany forum over six years ago, before we brought Ellie home!  Thankfully she saw here on the blog that we were coming to her town and e-mailed to see if we'd have time for a visit!  We were so glad we did!  I've said this before, but the experience of adoption makes you do things you never thought you'd do before... like invite internet friends to visit your home, and vice versa. :-)




The Albanian adoption community is quite small, so it's always nice to meet someone else who has traveled the same journey, and in this case, now have the pleasure to have met in person.  We had lots and lots to talk about, and before we knew it, we had to be on the road again.  Maybe someday we'll see them again in Albania!  Their daughter "N" would like to return, she says, and we hope she does!  She said the sweetest thing as we were leaving, "Whenever I meet other kids from Albania, I feel like I'm meeting brothers and sisters." 

We are so blessed by the friendships we have made through our journey of adoption -- I really don't know how to explain it, but we are really grateful.  Stay tuned -- if all goes as planned, we are going to meet another Albanian adoptive family 'for real' before this trip is over!

1.25.2013

"Heads" Carolina...

It's been a great trip so far (not without its share of excitement) and we have been so, so blessed by our visits along the way.  We have some pretty amazing friends and want to brag on them a bit here while we share snapshots from the past few days.  

I'm kinda hooked on Instagram and love that I can snap photos and share these moments pretty much as soon as they happen.  The square pics have been swiped from my feed (you can find a link to my profile on the right if you want to follow along). A few other photos are sprinkled in between.

Below ... Nathan's been amazing steering our vehicle up and down and through mountains.  I love this pic for the sight of the lovely 1980s dash board outfitted with a satellite radio, GPS, and back-up cam.


Not far from home we crossed historic Route 66 and the famous Dixie truck stop...


Tuesday night we stopped over in Winchester (KY) at the home of our friends Kevin and Amy (far left) Crump. Nathan and some of his friends hung out a lot with Amy and Susan's (middle) hall in college.  I had a lot of classes with Amy in the business department, as well as served in class cabinet leadership with her.  I'm pretty sure I had classes with Susan too but my memory is terrible. Somehow our circles overlapped in college too (did we go to DC together, Susan?)  All that to say, we have lots of memories together from college and at reunions the group of us find ourselves staying up to the wee hours of the morning sharing stories and laughing til we cry. Everyone needs friends like that.

Amy fixed a fantastic supper and invited some friends from church to join us.  We had a great time, stayed up way too late (for a week night), and enjoyed every minute of it.  (As evidenced by my utter lack of photographs aside from the one below).


Kevin picked up a box of toys at a garage sale and found the gem below which he gave to the kids.  I took this photo at a state park where we pulled off the Cumberland Parkway for a lunch and school stop.

Reni saw the limb below with the descending icicles and declared, "It looks like a toothbrush!"


A great benefit to traveling "RV style" is a portable fridge.  I cleaned out the fridge at the farm house and transferred a container of frozen homemade soup (made by my Grandpa Van).  Firing up the gas stove top we had a hot (free) lunch in the quiet of nature!


Wednesday evening we arrived in Boone, NC.  This was my first visit to Boone and I'd love to return!  We were invited by our friends Arthur and Hanna.  Arthur and Hanna used to work for WGM in the Marion office before Arthur took a position as a senior producer at Samartan's Purse.  The two are SO creative, I wish I had just an ounce of their talent.  Not only is Hanna a talented actress, but she's using season at home with their young children to create some amazing items (check out her hats here).  Arthur has a gift for producing gorgeous films that really touch your heart (check out Three Hearts here).  He gave us an advance copy of their adoption video which has been picked up by a distributor and I'm anxious to view!  We learned that some of you readers here helped their adoption fund (THANK YOU!) so we'll be sure to share how you can view it when it's available.


Beautiful J...


Reni had two 'girlfriends' in the Rasco girls.


The whole crew...


We went to church on Wednesday evening and shared with the Rasco's small group and our kids got to experience AWANA. It was a joy to meet their friends.  They were very encouraging and we could see why their small group is one of the many reasons why they love their home in Boone.

The next morning we met Arthur at work where he gave us a tour of the Samaritan's Purse offices and  the famous Operation Christmas Child warehouse.




Afterwards we met up with Hanna and the kids at the SP cafeteria.  Arthur boasted that they had the best lunch in town and he wasn't exaggerating!  It was a great way to cap off our time in Boone with the Rascos!

From Boone, we drove south to Morganton to see our friends, the DiMartinos.  Ricky and Aiden traveled with us twice to Hungary to serve at English camp, and Aidan was also a former cabinet member at the student center before graduating nearly 7 years ago.  What a joy to be in their home and see their lives together as a family!

We felt immediately at home, refreshed and blessed by our time with this sweet family. After putting the kids to bed, they taught us a fun game called Ticket to Ride.  Before we even finished I was looking it up on Amazon -- there is a "Europe" version that I think will be great for game night in the village!  They prayed for us before left this morning and off we left, hoping to beat the ice to our next stop:Cary!





Ellie loved little M.  I couldn't believe how taken she was with him!







Thank you, thank you for praying us along on this journey!  We have felt your prayers and rely on them!  Special thanks to our friends who have hosted us!  You don't know what an encouragement you are to our hearts.  Sincerely.  We love you!

1.22.2013

Back in the Saddle

After a break for Christmas, we feel like we are getting back into our missionary candidate role, going out and seeing old friends, meeting new faces, and sharing our testimony!  Sunday morning we visited a wonderful little church near Metamora called Cazenovia Mennonite.
 
 
You may remember us sharing about our friends, Joe and Judy, who helped us tremendously by moving our belongings from Kentucky to Illinois for us last July.  This is their home church, and what a lovely group of people!  After giving us their Sunday morning service, they came around us to pray, then served us a delicious Sunday lunch!  It's amazing what acts of kindness like that do to encourage our hearts as we traverse this journey to Albania.
 
Yesterday we kept this baby (below) fed and humming.  As most of you are aware (or experiencing yourself), the Midwest was hit with a regular Arctic blast.
 

 
This winter Mom and Dad installed a pellet stove in the farm house, and oh what a blessing it's been!  Several years of "town living" softened this ol' farm girl to where she forgot the joys of living in a drafty, uninsulated farm house with cold floors. Enter the pellet stove, the lazy man's way to experience true wood heat without the work and mess of carrying in armloads of fire wood. All you do is dump a bag of pellets (or corn kernels) into the hopper, flip a switch, and watch her light! I consider the occasional chill to be good conditioning for next winter, though I'm afraid this isn't helping my fire-starting skills. :-)
 
 
This cold weather came just in time to remind us why we're headed south for our next set of visits. :-) It wasn't fun packing the RV when the temps were in the single digits (with a brisk wind added, to boot).
 
 
I was extra grateful for my husband who risked his digits in the freezing temps to get the RV ready for her next road trip.  We are now making our way down to Kentucky -- spending the night tonight with some dear friends and their children, then from there we're headed to North Carolina!
 
 
 
 
Thank you for your prayers as we travel many miles.  The kids are in great spirits and so far we are good and healthy!  I wish I could say as much about the RV.  After getting her in the shop again, the pesky squeal of a belt under the hood has returned and is an ever present stresser, leaving us wondering if the alternator is charging the battery.  If I want to be positive, it's a constant reminder to trust in God's provision, even in this!

1.18.2013

100% Ellie



Our daughter Ellie is one of a kind.  If you've met her, you know what we mean.  Her imagination leaves us speechless (she is either going to be an author, a screen writer, video game designer, or something in the creative arts).  For waiting until she was nearly three years old to speak, she is now rarely at a loss for words. Ever asking us questions, she is constantly absorbing information and experiences and storing it away in her steel-trap of a mind. We usually marvel at the words she knows, frequently (and appropriately) utilizing phrases she's picked up along the way. Added to that, she doesn't know a stranger.  I love that she's at ease with so many people and helps even the most child-reticent soul feel like he has a knack with kids. It all results in some interesting and often humorous bits of conversation delivered throughout the day by an extraordinarily vibrant little girl.  



While most of the world uses Twitter to share news stories, personal opinion, or links to helpful articles, I primarily use my account to record the funny things our children say.  Until October (when Twitter and Google supposedly went to war), a visitor to our blog could also read our most recent tweets.  Since I no longer can post that feed (which, if you know a way to get it working again, I'm all ears), I thought I'd share some of the funny things that have come forth from the mouth of our Els...


Ellie Quotes

"You know how a cow has three stomachs? I think I have three stomachs today!" Asking for a refill of her cereal refill.


Searching for cereal, Ellie grabs a box of Corn Flakes in joy, only to set it back down w/disappointment. "It's CHICKEN food!   [you know, because of the big rooster on the front of the box]


Ellie: This shirt has stains! I can't wear it. 
Me: we're staying home today. 
Els: You mean no balls or dance parties?
['cause #thatshowweroll]

[Upon realizing that she's due for a visit to the dentist and there's nothing she can do to prevent it ...in the spirit of "An apple a day keeps the doctor away..."]

"Doctors are stopped by apples and fruit, but dentists are tough! Nothing keeps them away!"



"Let's trap some frog and fire up the BBQ!" #elliequote 
Perhaps we've been watching a tad too much #DuckDynasty?

 "I wish it was spring..." #elliequote after making an emergency potty stop on a back country road in subzero temps.




"This is the worst Christmas ever... it'll never come!"#impatient



Me:What should we buy Daddy for Christmas? 
#elliequote: New, fast internet #countryliving #mykidisageek



#elliequote (after viewing an ad for a diet pill) "Does it take a long time to become UN-fat?"



[Considering the fact that being a grown-up may not be all it's cracked up to be...]
"Is "boring" {stuff} 'fun" for grown ups?" #elliequote #shopping

"I don't like goodbyes! My heart hurts! My brain hurts! My LUNGS hurt!" #elliequote


We saw some military personnel just now. Ellie asks, "Do they defeat GIANTS???"

"Reni keeps yelling out my eardrums!" #boysmakenoise


 I'm hibernating. I'll come out and do school in the spring!! http://instagr.am/p/Q-dhB5Mrxr/ 



Sneaking into her old home, Ellie a gives tour to her friends, "Don't you like what I've done to the place? Isn't it  beautiful?" Pointing to @jonboy017 's dog Pixie, "This is Spike and the cat is 'Doggie.'"




Leaving Lexington, KY church today Ellie said, "I felt a little homesick."
[Yeah, we did too, Els.]

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These are just a few of the funny things that proceed from the mouth of Ellie Waggoner since October.  I'm sure she LOVES it that her mom has shared them with the world.  We're just proud of the special, special girl that God gave us in her!  In her ever-appropriate way of speaking, she was the missing puzzle piece!

P.S.  Friends and family, if you have a favorite Ellie quote, feel free to share it in the comments below!

1.17.2013

The Missionary Travel Agent


In all my interactions with my missionary friends, I never recalled any of them sharing about the exhausting mental exercise of scheduling homeland ministry visits (maybe the second go 'round is easier?).  The picture above doesn't do justice to the process of scouring address lists, reconciling availability, looking up contact info, and figuring out logistics for an agenda that tries to steward our limited resources of time and finances.  But please don't think I'm complaining.  I actually kind of relish the challenge and find a peculiar satisfaction in seeing it all come together! 


The process has actually reminded me a lot of my first job out of college when I worked for our local congressman.  For fifteen months I worked the front office (which is code for 'receptionist') in 329 Canon House Office Building, (though my business card sounded much more official with the title "constituent services representative").  When I wasn't answering telephones or divvying up the boxes of mail that arrived twice daily, I arranged special, reserved tours of Washington's top federal attractions for constituents of our district. 

I absolutely loved the city of Washington D.C. from my very first Gray Line Bus Tour over freshmen year spring break with my suite-mate, Jenni, and her Mom.  After several more visits and eventually moving there, I delved deeper into the city's sites and discovered that there were even more treasures and history around every corner with enough to do something different (and usually free or very cheap) every weekend to last me years. Connecting visitors to our nation's treasure trove of sites was a whole lot of fun and I couldn't believe it was my job!


The challenge I had was to balance a limited number of tickets per site (e.g. we only got 10 congressional tour tickets per week for the White H*use with requests for as many as 10-15 times that many during the busiest weeks of the summer), the days of the week that these reserved tours were offered (at some places, only 1 or 2 days per week) with the constituents' availability (e.g. in town on a Friday/Sat/Sun) and their priority list (they could rank the order of which sites were most important to them to see, and it seemed that everyone had the same top three favorite sites). My goal was to create a little travel itinerary for our guests that hit as many of their requests as possible, throwing in a few recommendations here or there for a good place to eat or shop and directions for which Metro lines to use to reach their destination. 

While most of the time it was a very fulfilling task, there were other times when I knew I was going to have to disappoint a lot of people simply because the supply of tour slots was no where sufficient to meet the seasonal demand. This was particularly stressful when the requests were coming from members of the congressman's extended family, local officials, or even family friends and I had already given away all of the tickets at my disposal!  (For serving a district more than 800 miles from D.C., we sure seemed to have a lot of visitors!!!)  But regardless of who was visiting, friend or bigwig or total stranger, I wanted to please. 

That's when it was handy to know the staffer down the hall from Sonny B*no's office. Representing a district in California, they didn't have nearly as many constituent visitors as us and he was usually good for a handful of extra tickets when our supply was short. It was also nice to have cultivated a relationship with the tour coordinator at the Treasury who would sometimes allow me to squeeze a couple of extra heads on a tour every now and then.  And when those favors were all used up, I would draw from my personal travel experiences and recommend a few obscure-but-none-the-less fascinating sites not listed on the official tour request form.  Most of the time, they were places our constituents didn't even know existed, but would later write me to say it was their favorite tour of all. And when all else failed, I would give a private guided tour of the Capitol building (which I got to give after taking a little class from Architect of the Capitol), taking guests through the underground tunnels and down on the floor of the House and Senate.  So while I wasn't doing something as significant perhaps as crafting public policy, if you wanted to get a tour of the White House or the Bureau of Engraving and Printing, you had to go through ME! ;-) 

In this position today, we are playing the role of constituent!  There are people we want to see and a message that we want to share, but how do we get access to the places we want to visit? And when we do, how do we reconcile our schedules and prioritize where we go in the limited time we have? 

Particularly helpful in this task are the friends who have acted as our "constituent services representative" and said, "Hey!  I've talked to our missions pastor and arranged for you to share with our small group, if you're available."  Those generous friends definitely help make our visits even more valuable, giving us 'behind the scenes' access'!  It's like we're getting the VIP tour instead of driving by and looking at the building from the window of a moving tour bus. 


I also understand that there are times and places where there is limited availability -- some churches are very missions saturated.  And that's okay because we're seeing that we are making some of our more meaningful connections in small groups and small churches.  Places where we meet brothers and sisters in Christ with a genuine interest in becoming more missions active and learning more about God's work in our own little obscure corner of the world, Albania. 

Definitely the process is full of the unexpected, like Thursday when I get an e-mail out of the blue from someone who read our calendar and saw that we were going to be in her town and could we get together? Yay! I didn't have her address so we had missed her on our initial zip code query. Thankfully, with only a few weeks' lead time, their schedule was able to jive with ours and we are going to meet in person for the first time!

Bit by bit our itinerary for our big trip south has started to take shape.  I'm okay with the fact that we're not going to "hit all the sites" (e.g. speak in a church each and every time the doors are open).  In some places, we're getting a basic introduction to a place we've never visited before, making contacts that might lead to future relationships.  In other places, we're getting the "VIP tour."  In both cases, we've prayed over our schedule and committed it to the Lord, doing our part to schedule what we can, but also be available, trusting in his divine appointments.

RIGHT NOW we are working our our spring schedule!  We are going to be in the States of Pennsylvania, NJ, VA, MD, NY, VT, and Maine!  PLEASE e-mail me if you would like to see us while we traverse through your state! You would make our day!

1.15.2013

I'm Growing Taller, Mommy!


Check out this boy!  Four consecutive days of him requesting to wear his legs!  Will wonders ever cease?  He's super proud of how tall he is and reminds me regularly that he's "growing up." (sigh)

Presently he loves to practice his letters, particularly "R", "I", and "P".  Yes, I have a lot of papers around my house that say RIP. or TIRP. I have a feeling he'll be writing his name out before spring.

1.13.2013

Fun in the Snow | Building a Fort 101

Christmas Eve and the Vermonters attempt to show the Waggoner kids what to do with the cold, white stuff.  


I can't remember who's idea it was first, but Uncle Seth wins some major points here... 



Check out this amazing child labor in action here.


Even Reni gets in on it.



I'm cool.  I got it.



Well... maybe not so much.  Oops!


At this rate, it will be a snow curb.  


When the help quits, go mechanical...



And here's the finished product. 


It was a sad day when it disappeared!  Thanks, Seth!