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4.27.2009

This and That

I have some great photos to share from last week's international 'play group'... unfortunately we forgot to turn our new camera off of the "RAW" setting and Cydil needs Nathan's help to convert them because her software doesn't recognize this particular version of RAW! [There are some previously unpublished Easter pics at the bottom if you want to skip the text and go straight to the good stuff]

It's been a busy week or so. Like most everyone else, we've been enjoying unseasonably warm temperatures... except that our AC is not working in our apartment and it was 85 inside most of the weekend. Instead, we've been enjoying more meals on our porch and last night we gave up and slept in the basement. Right now Ellie is thrilled to have her little blow up pool back in service and is pretending that the garden hose is her pet giraffe. Gotta love her imagination.

Speaking of Ellie, we had a couple of meetings with her teachers recently. There was some concern that she's had unusual difficulty transitioning back to school each week over the past month. Between our spring break, her spring break, and Easter weekend she's had a lot of transition. Sometimes I think we forget she's not as flexible as perhaps our college friends we've worked with for the past ten years. Last week seemed to be a departure from the trend and her first day back wasn't as traumatic, they reported. Still, we are learning to follow a strict routine in getting her prepared for the bus each day with plenty of time so she doesn't feel rushed. It's just hard to know when the bus is coming until it's practically at our driveway (the street is curved), so even if we're on the porch reading a book, we still have to scurry to gather Ellie and her backpack and dash to the street. But even that doesn't seem related to her behavior or happiness in school. Even on the days when she's a little more preturbed to be on the bus, we'll sometimes get the best reports on her at the end of the day.

The second meeting was one previously scheduled and it was an opportunity to discuss her recent testing scores. We will be getting a copy later when they are released to all parents at the same time, so for now, I'll just have to rely on my memory that she demonstrated improvements in nearly every area save one or two that remained unchanged. She will stay with the same teaching team next year for which we are grateful. And of her 18 classmates, all but 4 or 5 others will be going on to kindergarten. That explains why I thought she seemed really young for her class!

We continue to see her struggle with focus and concentration on longer tasks, but it was interesting to hear the techniques her teachers had devised so she would be able to stay on the carpet with her classmates during 'circle' time as it increased from seven minutes in the fall to twenty minutes (today). Some of those included giving Ellie her own copy of the book that Miss K was reading or giving her a magnetic board to hold in her lap with her own calendar or magnet pieces related to whatever was being pointed to on the wall. They pointed out that even though at times she doesn't seem to be paying attention to something in particular, she will reference it later in conversation, much to their surprise. (She has a memory like nobody's business).

I need to wrap up, in the mean time, enjoy these photos from Easter Sunday's Egg Hunt at Nonna and PaPa's home in Ohio.

We don't know where she got the idea, but whenever she would find an egg (and only for eggs), she would run and slide into the ground, much like someone stealing 2nd base. Very interesting.











opening presents inside...someone was paying attention that Ellie is VERY into Peter Pan right now. (And like a southerner, most of the time it's "Pan" with TWO syllables, not one: pay-an)

very cool. another 'fuzzy' which she named "Bob"

4.17.2009

Special Gift

Who doesn't like to open the mailbox and find something more than junkmail and bills? You can imagine my surprise this morning when I discovered a small package inside with a return address didn't belong to a family member. It was from my friend, Anne, whom I met in Hungary during the summer of 2006.

I haven't seen Anne since that English Camp experience three years ago, but thanks to the wonderful world wide web and blogging, we've been able to keep up with each other's lives and families.

A few weeks ago Anne and her husband Nate took an anniversary trip to New York City. It was so interesting and entertaining to read her travelogue of each day's visits and about their B&B in Harlem. It was evident they did their reseach beforehand so they could pack a lot into each day and make the most of their time while grandparents had the kids back home!

You can imagine my surprise today to discover that Anne thought of us on this trip and brought back a very special token for our family. (Note: I was not surprised that Anne was thoughtful -- she is extremely thoughtful, so much so that to receive a Christmas card from Anne is to receive a personal, handcrafted gift. That's just one example -- she's amazing). Anne wrote, "When we were at Ellis Island we saw a display of 5-6 pairs of children's shoes that had been worn by children that came through Ellis Island. In the gift shop there were replicas of these shoes... One of them was from Albania and I immediately thought of Ellie."

As Anne acknowledged, Ellie's immigration story is very different, nevertheless we will treasure this gift as a representation of Ellie's birth culture which will always be a part of her. I'm sure she will look at it as she grows older and while hanging it on our Christmas tree consider the unique stories of other Albanian children who came to America before her. Anne -- thanks for your gift of kindness to me today, but thanks even more for this gift for Ellie! You're the best!

4.15.2009

Tax Day 2009

Today has been a more unusual tax day for us than most. For one, we got our tax return in the mail yesterday from our CPA. It was 65 pages long. That was just the federal return. Yes. SIXTY-FIVE pages long. Quite a thunk when you drop it on the kitchen counter. And Nathan and I are obviously not multi-millionaires with investments or employees on a payroll. We spent several minutes writing checks (for city, county, and state taxes) and addressing envelopes this afternoon. Prepared to face a zoo at the PO, Nathan was pleasantly surprised to find the lobby empty!

Over the weekend we got a visual picture of the vast amounts of money our government is spending. To have an idea of how large one trillion dollars is. Imagine stacking $1000 bills on top of each other. One million dollars in one thousand dollar bills is 4.33 inches thick. One trillion dollars is over 63 MILES tall. In shock? Check out my math at the bottom of the post if you don't believe me. I heard today that the average child born this year will be born with a tax burden of $36,000-$46,000 just to pay their share of what our government is spending today. If you are 20 years old, over your lifetime you will pay $114,000 over your lifetime just to cover the interest on this budget's deficit. It's sickening.

So, in light of the frustration and anger we are feeling towards the reckless spending of our tax dollars on entitlements and bailouts, we skipped lunch to attend the little tea party at our county seat of Nicholasville. It was encouraging to see folks from church, neighbors, business owners, groundskeepers, retirees, school kids, young and old alike gathered out of love of our country and concern for our future.

Having worked for a while on Capitol Hill, I saw my share of protests and demonstrations. I have to say that a lot of those folks in DC seemed a bit out there, definitely out of the mainstream. Today's group was not like that. In fact, unlike some of the tea parties I've seen on TV, it was a pretty quiet group, but firm in its resolve.

Did you attend a tea-party? What are your thoughts about this? What was your favorite sign? (A of mine are, "Party like it's 1773", "Congress, you ran out of our money a long time ago", "I feel like a ship off the coast of Somalia", etc) Leave a comment! I'd love to hear your thoughts.









Our local talk radio host, and fellow Asbury grad, Leland Conway

Correct me if I'm wrong...

$1 million dollars in $1K bills is 4.33 inches tall
$10 million dollars in $1K bills is 40.33 inches tall
$100 million dollars in $1K bills is 400.33 inches tall (or 33.36 feet tall)
$1,000 million (or 1 billion) dollars in $1K bills is 4,000.33 inches tall (or 333.36 feet tall)
$10,000 million (or 10 billion) dollars in $1K bills is 40,000.33 inches tall (or 3333.36 feet tall)
$100,000 million (or 100 billion) dollars in $1K bills is 400,000.33 inches tall (or 33,333.36 feet tall)
$1,000,000 million (or 1 trillion) dollars in $1K bills is 4,000,000.33 inches tall (or 333,333.36 feet, or 63.13 miles tall)

4.13.2009

More Easter Weekend Pics

I've got just a few more photos to share from our big weekend in Ohio...
The next one is of Nathan's sister, Rebecca, and her trusty companion, Oscal. Ellie is a HUGE fan of Oskee who has shown himself to be of the most patient nature with young children. I'm afraid next time she visits Nonna and PaPa's, Ellie will be in for a bit of disappointment if he's not around (Oscal and Rebecca reside in Virginia).




My sweet in-laws who like to tease me horribly, but I take it as a sign of love ;-)

The next few photos below are from a visit with our friends, Matt and April. We enjoyed some time with them Friday evening. We got the kite out with the kids and took a walk around the pond before having dinner and squeezing in a game of Settlers. Ellie with Sam and Chloe





Ellie thoroughly enjoyed coloring Easter eggs. Once we let her pull the eggs out of the colors herself, she would plop them in another color. The first egg she re-colored happend to be yellow, which she then stuck in blue. Upon pulling it out of the blue dye she said, "Bye bye, yellow!"

We ended up with some very interestingly colored eggs!







In case you're wondering why Ellie isn't wearing her glasses in any of these photos, it's because lately she's been asking frequently to take them off. We suspect the frames are too small for her and cause discomfort, but have been waiting to get her new glasses until her next ophthalmalogy appointment which was supposed to take place last week. Unfortunately a we received a letter in the mail from the University of Kentucky eye clinic (where her dr works) that her April appointment was postponed two months! So, we're going to try to eke it out a bit longer because there's no sense getting new glasses only to have to replace the lenses a few weeks later... In the mean time, she really does wear them almost all of the time, but occasionally you may catch a snapshot or too without them! In the case of the egg-coloring pics, those were done early in the morning, before we even had her dressed and ready for the day so she probably didn't even have a chance to ask them to be removed!

The "Play Place"

On Good Friday we visited the "Ah Ha!" center in Lancaster with Nonna and Aunt Rebecca. Ellie had a great time! Here are some favorite images from the morning...

"Planting" flowers with Aunt Rebecca

Grocery Shopping




The water table was by far her favorite activity

Fishing

4.12.2009

The Carousel

We were walking through the primate exhibit when her ears first detected the faint strains of the carousel music. As soon as she saw it, Ellie started asking to 'ride the horses.' We were able to put her off until later, but the second time by, we agreed to let her take ride. I must say we were skeptical that when it came time to mount her steed, Ellie would panic and ask for one of us to hold her. Not so! I have to say I can't remember seeing her quite so happy. It was such a thrill to see her perpetual grin. The smiles below are not theatrics for the camera, they are the genuine, bona fide, real deal. I had to blink back tears and the silly the grin on my own face watching her.



At one point, she held out her arm and exclaimed, "Mary Poppins!"
Until yesterday, I don't know that she believed carousels really existed!

I know this is out of focus because they're moving, but just another precious photo of her joy!

All Ears

This post is dedicated to my parents, Bug, Dallas, Kelly, and all those others with whom I've walked countless miles detasseling seed corn fields. My father-in-law was very excited to bring us to the Field of Giant Corn Ears in Dublin, Ohio prior to our visit to the zoo. It was built to remember Sam Frantz, an inventor of hybrid corns.







The Columbus Zoo

We've had a great weekend up in Ohio at Nonna and PaPa's house. In anticipation of our trip to the Zoo, we asked Ellie a couple of times which animal she was most excited about seeing. Each time she confidently replied, "Pig."


Watching, flamingo style.

If we wouldn't have been in line, Ellie would have stayed longer to keep petting.

snack break

Ellie is currently fascinated with alligators (thanks to the movie, Peter Pan)
She will whisper, "Don't fall in the water! Alligator's coming. Scaaaarrrryyy!"

enthralled with the manatees and other underwater creatures

Thrilled to see the elephants (though no giraffes or zebras, to our chagrin)


pointing out the kangaroos