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2.17.2025

January 2025 | Gathering Around the Table

Titling a post is harder than it may appear.  Thankfully, I waited until I reached the end of my first draft because the month's theme caught me by surprise!  

With winter forcing us indoors, I shouldn't be surprised that the table would be a natural gathering place for this month's activities!

This post begins and ends with images around this essential and multi-functional piece of furniture. Read on and see all the ways we spent time at a table... from meals and fellowship to games, learning, celebration, and lots of meaningful discussions. Significant times were spent there showing love, appreciation, compassion, and sacrifice. 

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January started with a first -- overnight visitors!  How fun to have guests with whom to celebrate the new year?  We enjoyed lots of games and fellowship with these friends we met a few years ago through Reni's online school!


We also enjoyed a belated holiday meal with these dear ones on January 2 -- a raincheck due to illness on Christmas!  They treated us to a yummy meal.


On January 3 we welcomed Bonnie and Peder Anderson for their 4th visit to Albania.  They jumped in immediately!  You will see throughout this post lots of various ways in which they contribute to the work in the village.  

Below, Bonnie poses with kids who came to her first baking class.  Each Thursday at 4PM they learn how to make a new treat which we serve at church the next evening! 
The Andersons will stay with us through March 10.


One morning I took them on a home visit to get better acquainted with a couple from church.  During that time I learned that "R", below, spent his weekends playing live music at weddings with his many brothers.  If you aren't familiar with Albanian folk music, the clarinet plays a big part!


A group photo before leaving...


Peder helped us tackle cleaning out one of the storage containers!  This project has been on my list for years.  Ugh.  Thank you, Peder!


On January 8 we started the Alpha course again.  This time using the youth videos, for fresh content.


As always, we begin the evening over a catered meal around the table.  Bonnie made lemon bars for dessert from the abundance of lemons we were blessed to receive.


One Friday evening an old friend of Reni's spent the night.  The two boys and Ellie hung around the island (also a table) after church for more than an hour asking questions and debating issues related to the Bible, general living, and life after death.  I'm so grateful for Nathan's wisdom and eagerness to take part in these meaningful conversations as we parent teens who are developing their personal worldview and faith.


I found some eager helpers one afternoon -- they made quick work of organizing the "art cart" at Jeta, separating the pencils from the markers and the scissors from the erasers and glue sticks.


Nathan couldn't resist snapping a photo of the irony.  On the day Eda would teach the account of Palm Sunday, they found a donkey tied up at the house where we hold kids club in Metalle...


Peder has an amazing willingness to tackle my "honey do" list each time he comes.  I can't tell you what a blessing it is to have so many of these matters addressed!  I will appreciate his work for months and years to come as he works to make the properties to look and function better.

Below, the storage room (this isn't even an accurate "before" photo as we had already been working together for about an hour).


Below -- nearly finished!! It feels so good to PURGE!


As I've written in previous posts, Ellie and I spend our Wednesdays volunteering at VT Albania.  This particular day was special -- it was Besi's birthday and his mother made a tre leche cake for the group to enjoy together during coffee time!


This particular week, Ellie was uncharacteristically sick, so I attempted to teach her music class.  I found these reading glasses and asked the students if I looked a little like their music teacher.


So Ellie has been teaching about various composers and finding interesting facts about their lives, while also introducing us to samples of their music (these are most enjoyed when they accompany Tom and Jerry videos, ha ha).   I take the facts she finds and translate them into Albanian, creating fill in the blank worksheets, usually followed by a crossword puzzle. 


I have to say, I think I enjoy the lessons as much as anyone!  And I love that we learn together around a table instead of in a traditional classroom setting.


Ellie was thrilled that our neighbor, Ester, extended her Christmas break visit into the third week of January.   


Bonnie -- breaking all kids of barriers getting the boys to participate in baking too!  Her classes would continue to grow in popularity!


Frankly, we were surprised this friendly street dog made it so far into the winter, but when he got so comfortable with us that he started coming inside the center's gate and scratching at the door to find his favorite humans... someone decided he needed to find a new village to call home and he disappeared. 


I've continued to enjoy trying new recipes for family meals.  Don't ask me why I took a photo of the sandwich below except maybe as a reminder not to judge a recipe by its name? 

Below is a chicken Philly cheesesteak sandwich.  Oh my goodness, it was so yummy.  Who would have guessed that a packet of Italian salad dressing mix would make such great marinade that Nathan and I would be licking our fingers? For the past year, I've been trying recipes from my college friend, Laurie H, at the Passionate Penny Pincher.  They are simple and use 'regular' ingredients.  I can't say enough how much they've revived my enjoyment of the kitchen.


We visited the Hope Center twice in January.  The first time we had a blast playing VR games.  The second visit we made our own pizzas (it's always good for a teen to learn an easy-to-make meal to keep in their back pocket).  We make these with frozen packages of pita, something plentiful and cheap and easily found in virtually every grocery store in this part of the world.



Then we played some team Minute-to-Win-It games...


Any game is more fun if it involves a rubber chicken, lol.


The pizza was a hit!


We said goodbye to our new friend, Teresa, who had spent nearly three months at the Hope Center, then spent a few weeks at the end at VT Albania.  We had her over for lunch to share our appreciation for her friendship.


One of my other big list items was to lay a barrier around the boxwoods in front of Jeta.  The weeds grow abundantly and hopefully, this will slow them down!


A photo of another Alpha course meal... Bonnie and Peder and I work the kitchen -- serving up plates, clearing the tables and bringing out dessert, filling the dishwasher, and washing up what doesn't fit.  I am so thankful for their help!


Once a month we try to meet with each of the couples on our team ...


Whether it's the dinner table or coffee table, it's a good time of connection and also coming up with strategy for the future!


Every Tuesday and Thursday we have after-school tutoring.  We often play games with those who finish (or didn't bring any homework at all, ahem). 


In what ways and with whom did you have meaningful time around the table this winter?

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1.07.2025

December 2024 | A Sweet Ending to a Good Year


This is literally the first thing we did on December 1!  We posed with the tripod and the newly assembled Christmas decorations at church to take our Christmas photo.  I had in mind to print cards to share with local friends in addition to the postcards I try to send our ministry partners via a postcard printing service.


Later, we enjoyed coffee that Sunday afternoon with dear friends.


Nathan shared the story in church of Zechariah on the Advent week devoted to the theme of "hope."


My friend "L" asked for her photo in front of the trees as she did not have a tree in her home.


Practice for the Christmas drama commenced!


We started a new Christmas tradition last year of assembling a Lego Christmas set as a family. Afterwards we disassembled it to bring back to Albania as a repeat activity.

Below -- Reni had our friend, Caleb, at the Christmas Bazaar in Tirana.  I manned the table selling items for Handmade in Albania with my friend, Merita!


Ellie has been teaching music to the students at VT. For Christmas they practiced playing percussion to a recorded version of "We Three Kings." We had a dress rehearsal before we performed at...


...the Hope Center musical Christmas concert on December 11.


below -- Later, Nathan sits with "F" during the candlelight singing of Silent Night.


A portion of the highway between our village and Tirana will expand to three lanes in both directions.  We had no idea the havoc that would wreak on traffic in the coming days!


Soccer school would wrap for the winter so Nathan made special cookies as parting gifts for the participants. 


Sunday, December 15 we hosted some young friends for a viewing of The Best Christmas Pageant Ever.


We made cookies


and played games


until a surprise visitor showed up... Grandma from Argentina!  It had been nearly 3 years since they had seen her!


Last spring a visiting medical clinic provided free dental x-rays.  Those revealed that one of Ellie's wisdom teeth was growing sideways.  After some more detailed scans, we were able to schedule a procedure with the oral surgeon to start extracting her wisdom teeth.


Unlike back home, they use only local anesthetic, so they only pull one tooth at a time.  It will be a process of several trips to extract all four teeth!


I have often referred to the special community we have created through the women's gym class.  One of our most faithful participants organized a lovely Christmas party at a local restaurant. 


We had a lovely meal, that included lots of traditional dancing.  I was stunned to see that the party lasted nearly 4 hours!  We had so much fun!


The following morning we celebrated the last day of school at VT. 


It was another joyous party.  I can't even describe it.  I suggest checking out this great video on Instagram to get a glimpse of the joy.


Our friends Ismail and Demir sweetly climbed the roof of our home to adjust some tiles that had shifted, creating a leak in our roof.


The village kids are so taken with Christmas decorations, it's heartwarming.  These sweet girls wanted their photos taken by this faux fireplace made by Luis.


No pictures of the actual work, but this dirty apron provides a clue to Nathan's work one day...



Then after church we employed armies of helpers to ice and decorate these treats which we put on refreshment plates for the Christmas program.

Some of the cookies were held back for an activity at the Hope Center.  The creativity employed never ceases to amaze me.  No two cookies looked the same!


The expanded college football playoff meant watching the Buckeyes in the middle of the night on the 21st -- not a great way to start Christmas week, sleep-deprived, but at least they won!  What made it extra hard was that we had to wake extra early to get to the shops for Christmas grocery shopping before weekend traffic made driving and parking a nightmare.


We weren't alone in our middle-of-the-night game watching crazy-ness...


December 22

Sunday evening Christmas program started with the performance by the group from Valued Treasures...


Pastor Genti gave a strong message



Holding the service in the kalceto meant that we could serve refreshments in the sanctuary



Afterward, we celebrated with dinner as a staff at a nearby restaurant.  It was warm and we shared many laughs.  It was a sweet time.  
Also, note Ellie's Christmas sweater.  She had been begging for one for years.  On a whim, we picked this up for her on sale.  


December 23

The following day we were invited to the Hope Center for lunch.  I pose below next to the director, Ledina.

It was also my birthday, but we decided that following lunch and the afternoon program at the center we would switch up our plans to visit the Christmas village in the center of Tirana (my birthday tradition but it was pouring rain) and instead, we visited the new entertainment business at the shopping center on our side of the city.  I decided that since I'm not getting any younger, I would try something new and do karaoke! It was a lot of fun!


Followed by bowling!


December 24

Our original plans of spending the evening with Reni's birth family had to be post-poned due to illness, so the birthday crew plus Anneco joined us for snacky food and games.


December 25

Christmas morning was lowkey because we didn't exchange gifts this year (to take a family trip the kids had long been wanting), but we still read Luke 2 by the tree over Quiche Lorraine (Nathan and I) and Cinnmon Toast Crunch (the kids).


A few hours later Teresa, Luli and Hannah joined us for raclette. Note, Ellie's Christmas sweater.  Yes.  Four days in a row, lol.

We were introduced to this dining concept by missionary colleagues in Hungary.  It's a fun sort of experience that has easy prep and a forced slowness to eating.  We grill various meats and veggies on the upper grill, then take those goodies and melt cheese over them on the lower rack, which is then slid onto a piece of toasted bread.

During the days after Christmas, we enjoyed some special family time outside of Albania site seeing, learning, and eating foods we can't find there, making memories as a family realizing we only have a few more years left together as a family of four before college!  As tourism to Albania has exploded, discount airlines have begun providing service that makes air travel more affordable than driving, in many cases. It felt like a big splurge (I mentioned that we skipped gifts this year to make this possible), but it was good to get some time away and for the kids to see a new-to-them place. I must admit that flying on discount airlines is not without its stress -- our flights changed multiple times between the time we bought them last summer so by the time we actually flew, a part of me was just grateful that the trip actually happened! And also that no one was sick!

We arrived home on New Years Eve and were pleased to host some co-workers from a nearby country.  Their son is close friends with Reni, and we all enjoyed games and watching fireworks from the rooftop of Jeta!


I'll close with our last family photo of 2024.  This was taken while we waited to board the flight back to Albania.  The Lord blessed us with a good 2024 and we can only imagine what this next year will hold!  See you in 2025!